LIVING A HAPPY LIFE

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No one in this world will be the source of your happiness.Your happiness depends on you and no one else. Throughout life, a lot of people have committed suicide because of lack of happiness. In life,who you are depends on what you have agreed to be. I have always seen this theory,make yourself happy and do not depend on others for your happiness.

WAYS OF LIVING A HAPPY LIFE

Identify what makes you happy. there are people who can fuel your desires of being happy. the presence of some things in your life can catalyse your happiness. it may be an individual, an entertainment package or a material thing.Know the specific thing to make you happy and when you find that thing,never let it go.
Guide it with everything you have so that you will never lose it.

Forgive easily and never harbour bitterness in you. The one you are angry at may even not know and will never be disturbed..However, you will end up always hurting yourself. It is like planning to kill a housefly who just touched your sore. The more you are angry at it, the greater you will intensify the pain as you try hitting the fly. You will end up hitting your sore.

Laugh always.Laughter and smiles are ways of always feeling relieved. The more you laugh,the more you relax your facial muscles and strengthen your heart to pump good blood to your organs. Anger makes you do things you end up regretting later in life. Smile,you don’t own all the problems in the world.

Avoid being negative. Always think on good thing. Never have a habit of thinking as a failure. Always be positive in all your dealings. Desist the company of people who always makes you feel inferior.The guinea fowl hatched by a hen will always see itself as a guinea fowl.The lion nursed by a bitch will always see itself as a dog. the company you always associate with influence your thinking.

Have a goal in Life. A happy life is a life with purpose.People who do not plan their lives always live a fruitless life full of regrets and bitterness. Set a goal and work towards it. That will motivate you and cause you to press on. Determination is the key to achieving greater things, the lack of it will always make you sad.

Don’t think too much. Thinking too much always brings worry to your soul. the more you think, the more you doubt even your potentials. Think on positive things and not things that will make you sad.

Never Forget your value.You might feel worthless to one person, but you are priceless to another. Don´t ever forget your value.

Always live in the present. Yesterday is in the tomb, tomorrow is in the womb,what you have is today. Never look back and grieve over the past for it is gone.Live in the present and work on making it the best place you can ever be.

Please yourself and not others. Do things that make you happy and not things that please others.Many people offered courses their parents wanted them to offer and not what they wanted. they ended up always living a bored and unfulfilling life.Do what please you and brings joy to you and not what will make others happy. At the end off the day,it is you who will be held responsible for your actions and not them.

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