WHEN SHE WANTS ATTENTION
Every lady has a love language and that makes her feel loved. This love language will make her know that she means the world to you. A man is always happy when his spouse is happy. Majority of relationships and marriages have ended on the rocks because of the lack of knowledge in this field.
"He gives me everything i need, from clothes to shoes. I spend holidays in the country of my choice. I have a luxurious lifestyle many ladies are envious of, but i am not happy. i just want him around." This was what a lady told me. Basically her love language was quality time. People with this love language always want their spouses to spend time with them. Have time for them and they will do anything you want. They are not moved by the gifts you shower on them. Neither are they moved by you sugar-coated words. All they want is your presence.
Mostly ladies who seek attention developed it from infancy. It is either they were not given that attention or they received that attention in abundance that has made it impossible for them to live without it. As you spend time with your work, do not forget about them because they also need to be worked upon. Do not spend your time and energy on your work. Reserve some strength to spend time with her. It is very difficult to flow when you are tired. To prevent a boring conversation, make sure you have a reserved energy to chat with her.
Take her out periodically, go to the movies or a restaurant. Sit with her at the beach. Listen to her speeches on different matters. Participate in her conversations and let her feel your presence. She does not just need your physical presence. She requires your participation. She will never feel loved the moment your attention shifts from her. You become the only person, only friend she gets to know of when you start dating her. Therefore, she sees you as her everything. Give her the time she needs and that drought in the relationship will be over.
"He gives me everything i need, from clothes to shoes. I spend holidays in the country of my choice. I have a luxurious lifestyle many ladies are envious of, but i am not happy. i just want him around." This was what a lady told me. Basically her love language was quality time. People with this love language always want their spouses to spend time with them. Have time for them and they will do anything you want. They are not moved by the gifts you shower on them. Neither are they moved by you sugar-coated words. All they want is your presence.
Mostly ladies who seek attention developed it from infancy. It is either they were not given that attention or they received that attention in abundance that has made it impossible for them to live without it. As you spend time with your work, do not forget about them because they also need to be worked upon. Do not spend your time and energy on your work. Reserve some strength to spend time with her. It is very difficult to flow when you are tired. To prevent a boring conversation, make sure you have a reserved energy to chat with her.
Take her out periodically, go to the movies or a restaurant. Sit with her at the beach. Listen to her speeches on different matters. Participate in her conversations and let her feel your presence. She does not just need your physical presence. She requires your participation. She will never feel loved the moment your attention shifts from her. You become the only person, only friend she gets to know of when you start dating her. Therefore, she sees you as her everything. Give her the time she needs and that drought in the relationship will be over.
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